From Single Into A Relationship
“The relationship we are first seeking is the one with ourself … then the rest of life happens effortlessly … like water flowing gently in a steam, perfectly filling each nook and cranny that’s been expertly carved out of our desire for what we really want to experience.” ~ ER
1. DEFINING WHO I REALLY AM – I never once referred to myself as single just because I wasn’t in a relationship. I am a writer, a woman, a mother, a web designer etc. I am also deeply connected to my own spiritual nature and the source of all of life.
2. CHECKING MY PERCEPTIONS – Is there something wrong because a past relationship didn’t work in a way that keeps us living together? My ex’s are still my friends. (My fiancée met my ex husband last weekend. He treated him like one of the family … fiancée still reeling from shock … lol)
3. BEING WHO I WISH I WAS – I imagined how I would feel if I were in a relationship. I had conversations about the wonderful things a relationship brings to my life. I wrote on facebook as if I was deeply in love to the point that when I announced I had started a relationship, most people thought that I was already in one.
4. GETTING OVER IT – I no longer look for feedback from others – ever! I have become so certain inside myself of who I am than no one elses opinion can shake me from that. No one ever questions my credentials … but people contact me from all around the world on a myriad of subjects hoping I will be the catalyst to change their life.
5. WHAT GOT ME HERE? – My insatiable desire to grow my mind, to expand my heart, to live fully, to dive in deeply without fear of what I could lose and confidence only in what I could gain and the most precious guidance from inside me that tells me clearly if something feels good or if it feels “off” … my own inner being!
Blessing and love to all,
P.S. MOST PEOPLE LOOK FOR A MATE WITH CERTAIN QUALITIES .. who is compatible, who will love them, who will give them what they need … but I look inside for ME first. I am true to myself no matter what others might be thinking, I focus on the best attributes of each person no matter what they might be saying, I find happiness no matter what else might be happening .. and the right one comes along, no effort at all. ~ ER
Love it, live it, imagine you already have it…
It is as simple as that and, IT, is on its way!
Thanks Elizabeth