A WOMAN will generally not ask directly for what she wants from a man though she will give him many hints. She wants him to be so interested in her that he will figure it out. If she seems like she’s criticizing and teasing, there is something she is needing — reassurance and love. Take criticism as her way of challenging you to step up and be MORE masculine and love her no matter what. Don’t be offended by this. It is a natural part of feminine energy which stimulates the competitive nature of a man. Surprise her with something you know she enjoys. When she seems unbearably sad, fearful or stressed, don’t criticise or try to change her for this. Understand it is one side of feminine energy and if she feels your love and understanding it can often be converted into playfulness and passion and will generally pass much quicker as you give her your COMPLETE attention. Respond to her with humour, lightness, create surprise and always reassure her. A man who can cheer a woman up is extremely sexy. She will begin to trust you will be there for her through hard times as well as easy. When she trusts you she will open herself to you and radiate femininity even brighter than before. Stop focusing on yourself and finding reasons to hold back. Give her what she needs.
Feminine Energy naturally values LOVE & CONNECTION – Find out how you can show her you love her the most, then DO IT in surprising ways. Generally giving her your full presence (without being distracted, answering the phone or falling asleep … lol) works wonders.
A MAN often seems like he doesn’t care about a woman, but most times he is confused about the way she is communicating and about whether he can make her happy. Gently encourage him to show you love in the ways that mean the most to you. Find things he does well then thank and appreciate him for them. BE open to him. Think of, talk about and do things with him that make you happy. Ask him to do things for you by expressing how grateful you are for his help, love, caring and advice. Your happiness is most important to him and if you are happy while he is around, he will feel more empowered to create other opportunities for you to enjoy. Allow him to take care of you, to protect you, to make plans and to provide for you. Remember and acknowledge how he has done things really well in the past. Instead of criticising, try to influence him with pleasure, playfulness and seductive teasing.
Masculine Energy naturally values SIGNIFICANCE. Tell him that he is your hero. Make him the most important part of your life (yes, even more important that the children) and find out how you can best contribute to his life in significant ways.