Get Rid Of Bad Habits – for good!

THERE ARE TWO PATHS IN RELATIONSHIPS – Those that move us further apart from each other and those that draw us closer together.

Strategies, techniques and rituals make an enormous difference to the stability of a relationship, yet nothing has more of a profound impact on the longevity of the bond that’s created than the TYPE of relationship you choose to play at and there are three basic types to choose from -

1. IT’S ALL ABOUT ME – you give ME what I want. YOU are 100% responsible for making ME happy.
2. TRADING RELATIONSHIP – you give me what I want and I’ll give you what you want. WE are responsible for 50% each.
3. SELFLESS UNCONDITIONAL RELATIONSHIP – I want for you what you want for you. I AM 100% response-able for YOUR response. High level intimacy. Greatest opportunity for personal AND spiritual growth.

If you choose to play at the highest level, this beautiful and inspiring poster will remind you of your commitment to giving you mate what means the most to THEM, not what YOU think they should want, but what they truly need … and if you say words like these to each other, miracles may happen in your life and the lives of those who witness your special bond.

Please download this with our kindest wishes by clicking on the poster below …

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A man would be wise to do something he may never have done before with the powerful energy of an angry woman — TO INVITE HER TO EXPRESS IT DIRECTLY TO HIM — for him to listen, to give HER (not the words) his full attention, feel what SHE is feeling and NOT take it personally. What she has to say can often be taken VERY personally if he listens with his mind …

… if he HEARS with his heart he will feel his love, his resolve to care for her, his passion to be with her completely. It is a strength of character, a powerful masculine attitude that rises from the core of a man which says,

“I love you no matter what you say, no matter what you do, no matter how you are. I will take care of you no matter what energy you throw at me. Bring it on. Let me fight this battle for you and show you the depth of my love.”

With this attitude and willingness to allow the woman be herself, for as long and as intense as she needs, she will begin to trust that HE will be there for her, she will feel how much he cares, she will respect his determination, his courage, he will melt her heart, warm her body and own her very soul. For most women, ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS.

THIS IS THE REALM OF A TRUE HERO, A REAL WARRIOR, THE MOST COURAGEOUS MAN ON EARTH.

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I wonder what would happen if we realized that HUMANS created God, giving rise to an explanation of a concept so confusing that a set of characteristics likened to a judgmental, critical parent, separate from us, was adopted …

… instead of the REAL experience of God most of us resonate with, as loving and accepting us exactly as we are – warts and all. With NO division between good and bad, Catholic and Protestant, straight and gay, men and women, with just a deep recognition of the UNIVERSAL TRUTH that WE ARE ALL ONE!

(and the questions continue)

I wonder why we felt the need to give God a name when it is possible that our experience can be flexible enough to encompass calling God many names, like universal energy, the self, infinite intelligence, the great tao, life, mother nature etc …

… and what would happen if God was MORE than a basic gender definition of a he or a she and was defined as “everything that is and everything that isn’t”, would our experience be more believable then?

All great truths begin as blasphemy – just like we once believed witches should be burned at the stake, that whites were better than blacks, that women didn’t have the right to vote. How gently we can change when we simply allow a broader concept to resonate inside us – for that is where change truly begins – and shines for all the world to see!

Don’t you think it’s crazy to believe one must achieve a high state of consciousness in order to experience God?

What is preventing us from experiencing, conversing, communing with God right NOW, no matter how we’re feeling, whether we’re meditating, whether we’re centered, whether we feel we’re worthy for God to talk to us or not?

Isn’t it possible that God is with us, beside us, inside us, right here, right now AND that God speaks TO US and THOUGH US all the time? That the answers to our questions might be heard in the words of a song, or in the writings of a friend (or enemy for that matter), or in the whisper of the breeze, or simply experienced in our own minds or heart – who is to say that ISN’T God?

Why on earth would God EXPECT us to behave in a certain way or DEMAND we live by a set of pre-conceived commandments when it is possible they were sent as recommendations, NOT rules?

Would the God of your imaginings be so NEEDY as to demand we worship HIM (?) in a particular way, by not eating meat on Fridays, by growing ones beard, by living without experiencing the glory of sex?

I wonder if it serves us to believe our concept of yesterdays God … and whether it might serve us better to re-create our experience of God anew in the moment, knowing that God can change in an instant and guide us to that place where professing our beliefs to each other becomes as redundant as the need to say “I believe in life”, for isn’t that as obvious as the existence of God – no matter what you call it!

Isn’t it also possible that there will be MANY voices bringing a message LIKE this to the world – to question our outdated and clearly dysfunctional views of God and our absurd misunderstandings around marriage and relationships?

Where there will no longer be a need for ONE to have a more pertinent message than another – where YOUR words will be as acceptable as mine – where there will be no grand facilitator, no righteous guru, no “Big Brother”, no one deciding our fate – just the same opportunities that life gives everyone.

It is a message so profound it could “save the tiger”, prevent the slaughter of whales, release the dancing bears from captivity, feed the starving and lessen the gap between rich and poor – for once we truly live as if WE ARE ALL ONE WITH EVERYTHING IN THE UNIVERSE, how could we treat each other and our environment the same way again…?

A grand vision for sure, but one that holds with it the seeds of UNIVERSAL TRUTH so enormous that once heard, read or witnessed will resonate with enough people to finally tilt the scales and create the change we are all so desperately seeking. In fact, before these words have been written – the change has already begun – for it has been resonating at the core of our existence for eons, just seeking expression in a multitude of forms – so the questions IS NOT, “what will we do to create change?” the question IS, “will you be someone who demonstrates to the world that WE ARE ALL ONE?”

WILL YOU demonstrate it with an ACCEPTANCE of the people you disagree with, the people you don’t understand, the people you hate and the people who hurt and try to kill you? For this message is no greater than theirs. If you listen carefully with an understanding and patient ear, you may also hear that at its core, it is EXACTLY THE SAME.

WE are all one! We ARE all one! We are ALL one! We are all ONE! WE ARE ALL ONE!

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“Remember that WORDS HAVE POWER – to anger, to comfort to bring people to tears. Knowing that, I wonder what words you would say to other people if you realized they were just a reflection of you?”
– Elizabeth

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“If you want to move forward with your life – stand up, decide what it is you really want then turn your body, heart and mind towards that direction. If it is TRULY your souls desire, your direction will be clear, for one needs never question that your soul guides you on the journey where it manifests the highest good for all … unless of course you decide it to be a completely different process!”
– Elizabeth

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