The Power Of Love – FREE DOWNLOAD
THERE ARE TWO PATHS IN RELATIONSHIPS – Those that move us further apart from each other and those that draw us closer together.
Strategies, techniques and rituals make an enormous difference to the stability of a relationship, yet nothing has more of a profound impact on the longevity of the bond that’s created than the TYPE of relationship you choose to play at and there are three basic types to choose from -
- IT’S ALL ABOUT ME – you give ME what I want. YOU are 100% responsible for making ME happy.
- TRADING RELATIONSHIP – you give me what I want and I’ll give you what you want. WE are responsible for 50% each.
- SELFLESS UNCONDITIONAL RELATIONSHIP – I want for you what you want for you. I AM 100% response-able for YOUR response. High level intimacy. Greatest opportunity for personal AND spiritual growth.
If you choose to play at the highest level, this beautiful and inspiring poster will remind you of your commitment to giving you mate what means the most to THEM, not what YOU think they should want, but what they truly need … and if you say words like these to each other, miracles may happen in your life and the lives of those who witness your special bond.
Please download this with our kindest wishes by clicking on the poster below …
WHEN A WOMAN IS ANGRY
A man would be wise to do something he may never have done before with the powerful energy of an angry woman — TO INVITE HER TO EXPRESS IT DIRECTLY TO HIM — for him to listen, to give HER (not the words) his full attention, feel what SHE is feeling and NOT take it personally. What she has to say can often be taken VERY personally if he listens with his mind …
… if he HEARS with his heart he will feel his love, his resolve to care for her, his passion to be with her completely. It is a strength of character, a powerful masculine attitude that rises from the core of a man which says,
“I love you no matter what you say, no matter what you do, no matter how you are. I will take care of you no matter what energy you throw at me. Bring it on. Let me fight this battle for you and show you the depth of my love.”
With this attitude and willingness to allow the woman be herself, for as long and as intense as she needs, she will begin to trust that HE will be there for her, she will feel how much he cares, she will respect his determination, his courage, he will melt her heart, warm her body and own her very soul. For most women, ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS.
THIS IS THE REALM OF A TRUE HERO, A REAL WARRIOR, THE MOST COURAGEOUS MAN ON EARTH.
Who Created God?
I wonder what would happen if we realized that HUMANS created God, giving rise to an explanation of a concept so confusing that a set of characteristics likened to a judgmental, critical parent, separate from us, was adopted …
… instead of the REAL experience of God most of us resonate with, as loving and accepting us exactly as we are – warts and all. With NO division between good and bad, Catholic and Protestant, straight and gay, men and women, with just a deep recognition of the UNIVERSAL TRUTH that WE ARE ALL ONE!
(and the questions continue)
I wonder why we felt the need to give God a name when it is possible that our experience can be flexible enough to encompass calling God many names, like universal energy, the self, infinite intelligence, the great tao, life, mother nature etc …
… and what would happen if God was MORE than a basic gender definition of a he or a she and was defined as “everything that is and everything that isn’t”, would our experience be more believable then?
All great truths begin as blasphemy – just like we once believed witches should be burned at the stake, that whites were better than blacks, that women didn’t have the right to vote. How gently we can change when we simply allow a broader concept to resonate inside us – for that is where change truly begins – and shines for all the world to see!
Don’t you think it’s crazy to believe one must achieve a high state of consciousness in order to experience God?
What is preventing us from experiencing, conversing, communing with God right NOW, no matter how we’re feeling, whether we’re meditating, whether we’re centered, whether we feel we’re worthy for God to talk to us or not?
Isn’t it possible that God is with us, beside us, inside us, right here, right now AND that God speaks TO US and THOUGH US all the time? That the answers to our questions might be heard in the words of a song, or in the writings of a friend (or enemy for that matter), or in the whisper of the breeze, or simply experienced in our own minds or heart – who is to say that ISN’T God?
Why on earth would God EXPECT us to behave in a certain way or DEMAND we live by a set of pre-conceived commandments when it is possible they were sent as recommendations, NOT rules?
Would the God of your imaginings be so NEEDY as to demand we worship HIM (?) in a particular way, by not eating meat on Fridays, by growing ones beard, by living without experiencing the glory of sex?
I wonder if it serves us to believe our concept of yesterdays God … and whether it might serve us better to re-create our experience of God anew in the moment, knowing that God can change in an instant and guide us to that place where professing our beliefs to each other becomes as redundant as the need to say “I believe in life”, for isn’t that as obvious as the existence of God – no matter what you call it!
Isn’t it also possible that there will be MANY voices bringing a message LIKE this to the world – to question our outdated and clearly dysfunctional views of God and our absurd misunderstandings around marriage and relationships?
Where there will no longer be a need for ONE to have a more pertinent message than another – where YOUR words will be as acceptable as mine – where there will be no grand facilitator, no righteous guru, no “Big Brother”, no one deciding our fate – just the same opportunities that life gives everyone.
It is a message so profound it could “save the tiger”, prevent the slaughter of whales, release the dancing bears from captivity, feed the starving and lessen the gap between rich and poor – for once we truly live as if WE ARE ALL ONE WITH EVERYTHING IN THE UNIVERSE, how could we treat each other and our environment the same way again…?
A grand vision for sure, but one that holds with it the seeds of UNIVERSAL TRUTH so enormous that once heard, read or witnessed will resonate with enough people to finally tilt the scales and create the change we are all so desperately seeking. In fact, before these words have been written – the change has already begun – for it has been resonating at the core of our existence for eons, just seeking expression in a multitude of forms – so the questions IS NOT, “what will we do to create change?” the question IS, “will you be someone who demonstrates to the world that WE ARE ALL ONE?”
WILL YOU demonstrate it with an ACCEPTANCE of the people you disagree with, the people you don’t understand, the people you hate and the people who hurt and try to kill you? For this message is no greater than theirs. If you listen carefully with an understanding and patient ear, you may also hear that at its core, it is EXACTLY THE SAME.
WE are all one! We ARE all one! We are ALL one! We are all ONE! WE ARE ALL ONE!
Words Have Power
“Remember that WORDS HAVE POWER – to anger, to comfort to bring people to tears. Knowing that, I wonder what words you would say to other people if you realized they were just a reflection of you?”
– ER
How To Change Direction In Life
“If you want to move forward with your life – stand up, decide what it is you really want then turn your body, heart and mind towards that direction. If it is TRULY your souls desire, your direction will be clear, for one needs never question that your soul guides you on the journey where it manifests the highest good for all … unless of course you decide it to be a completely different process!”
– ER
What Are YOU Afraid Of?
1 … Fear of Poverty: We get from life exactly what we ask from it. If we are driven by the fear of poverty, we will be thinking the thoughts of a poor person and, because of this, our thoughts, deeds, actions, habits and behaviors will not allow us to succeed.
2 … Fear of Criticism: Successful decisions are made on facts and not opinions. If you fear criticism, you will begin to make judgments using opinions instead of facts and, because of this your chances of success will be reduced.
3 … Fear of Ill Health: Every living thing wants to live and to live healthily. This is a primal need and, consequently, a fear that is very difficult to control. However, through applied faith and belief, it can be reduced.
4 … Fear of Loss of Love: A man will go to great lengths to please a woman, sometimes even sacrificing his family and his job for her. Therefore, this is a key fear that many men feel subconsciously. A woman will also go to great lengths to avoid losing the love of her children or her partner, often sacrificing her own needs in the process.
5 … Fear of Old Age: This is more of a mindset than a fear. People who are older may feel that time is against them or that they are simply too old to achieve anything. This fear prevents key characteristics like desire and perseverance from being used effectively.
6 … Fear of Death: This is our ultimate fear and is often only felt in dangerous situations. However, this fear has the power to take over the body, mind and our emotions – just think how your life would change if you were told you had only 6 months to live – and the Fear of Death was summoned to the front of your mind.
7 … Fear of Not Enough: Many of us pretend to be afraid that we aren’t good enough, there isn’t enough love, there’s not enough money, we don’t have enough skills or access to resources, we’re not old enough or young enough, we don’t have enough knowledge or power. These are NOT actual fears, but lies we tell ourselves as an excuse that keeps us living a life of mediocrity instead of excellence.
8 … Fear of Being Alone: A man or woman may use sex, money, children or threats to manipulate their partner into staying with them so they don’t have to face this fear. Some people may also choose to have children in order to placate the fear of being alone.
9 … Fear of Failure: How many times have we failed to act, to do something, to create something, to start something simply because we were afraid to fail? Fear of failing keeps us immobilized and prevents us from taking calculated risks which are a significant part of the natural growth process. Did you know that Edison failed 10,000 times before perfecting the incandescent electric light bulb? Some of the most successful and influential people in the world use failure as a springboard to making a difference in the world as this VIDEO clearly demonstrates. Change your thoughts of failing, stop speaking or listening to words of failing and STOP acting as if you are going to fail … instead, think as if you’re a winner, speak as if you already have what it is you seek, act as if what you want has already been achieved.
HOW TO OVERCOME FEAR
If we can face any of these fears and even DEFY them, we will then have the chance to experience success beyond our wildest dreams. They must be conquered or overcome on three levels for this to be sustainable:
The first 6 fears have been modified from Think and Grow Rich By Napoleon Hill. The last 3 fears and the method used to overcome fear, have been added based on my own experiences.
How does FEAR impact your life?
How To Get The Job You REALLY Want
I’ve seen people on Facebook desperately throwing out the plea to all their friends that they need a job … and I’ve received another email just now from someone else needing help too. I’ve never been in the position that these two people have of needing a job so much that you’ll ask simply anyone … and I really feel for them!
I’ve been blessed to have always had the knowledge that making a DECISION about what job I really wanted has always led me to the right position … and to take it further, I’ve usually simply MADE A DECISION to create a business out of doing what I really love to do too.
My answer to the first person who enquired about getting a job was:
- By asking everyone you know with a proactive attitude – you will attract some attention.
- By getting PRECISELY CLEAR about exactly what job you want - you will get closer to the mark.
- By asking the people who can REALLY HELP you (like an employment agency or prospective employers directly) – you will hit the target.
Then last night I was reading Napoleon Hills’ classic book Think & Grow Rich and came to a part that descibes the process of getting the job you really want in more detail which I have slightly re-written to keep it pertinent to todays market.
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1. Decide EXACTLY what kind of a job you want. If the job doesn’t already exist, perhaps you can create it.
2. Choose the company, or individual for whom you wish to work.
3. Study your prospective employer, as to policies, personnel, and chances of advancement.
4. By analysis of yourself, your talents and capabilities, figure WHAT YOU CAN OFFER, and plan ways and means of giving advantages, services, developments, ideas that you believe you can successfully deliver.
5. Forget about “a job.” Forget whether or not there is an opening. Forget the usual routine of “have you got a job for me?” Concentrate on WHAT YOU CAN GIVE.
6. Once you have your plan in mind, arrange with an experienced writer to put it on paper in neat form, and in full detail (or write it in a professional manner yourself).
7. Present it to the proper person with authority and they will do the rest. Every company is looking for people who can give something of value, whether it be ideas, services, or “connections.”
Every company has room for the person who has a definite plan of action which is to the advantage of that company. This line of procedure may take a few days or weeks of extra time, but the difference in income, in advancement, and in gaining recognition will save years of hard work at small pay. It has many advantages, the main one being that it will often save from one to five years of time in reaching a chosen goal. Every person who starts, or “gets in” half way up the ladder, does so by deliberate and careful planning.
Here is a good plan, which I have unconsciously followed all my life. If you want a job you can be happy with and will earn a good income – this is a tried and true method for obtaining it. The next step is up to you.
FAITH, LOVE, and SEX
“The emotions of FAITH, LOVE, and SEX are the most powerful of all the major positive emotions. When the three are blended, they have the effect of “coloring” the vibration of thought in such a way that it instantly reaches the subconscious mind, where it is changed into its spiritual equivalent, the only form that induces a response from Infinite Intelligence” – from Napoleon Hills’ Think and Grow Rich
In case you don’t already have it, you can pick up your FREE copy of the e-book, Think and Grow Rich here.
If You Do What You’ve Always Done
There’s the old saying that goes, “If you do what you’ve always done, you’ll get what you’ve always got!”
Now we’ve added an extra bit that says, “… and even if what I’ve got has had it’s benefits, I’m doing something different RIGHT NOW!”
Here’s the entire saying on a t-shirt just in case you want to download and keep it in a prominent place to remind you how it only takes one decision to make a change! God bless.
Being Patient
Sometimes when we set goals or start to make changes in our lives, we want the results to be almost instant. There’s nothing wrong with that. But I wonder what would happen if we were willing to wait and be a little more patient.
“The BIGGEST THINGS we ask for in life rarely happen exactly when we ask for them, nor do they typically come from who or where we expect. They usually come a bit later, from someone or somewhere we didn’t even know existed when we first asked, as a result of some weird turn of events that were impossible to foresee. Chill out! Be patient. Enjoy the moment. And let our friends, employers, and partners off the hook. Patience is cool, really cool.” – Adapted from Notes From The Universe
I wonder what other benefits you can think of for BEING PATIENT …? Feel free to share them in the comment box below. We love hearing what you think!
The 3 Most Powerful Questions
Do you have a bad habit of thinking unhappy thoughts about yourself or your life? I know that sometimes I slip and think “I’m not good enough” OR “I can’t do something”. Just lately I’ve been wondering how I’m going to create an income by doing what I love to do, which is helping people to overcome their bad habits and negative thinking.
I was just listening to an interview with Dan Kuschell who is an incredibly successful entrepreneur. He’s trained over 50,000 people in direct marketing skills, and he has just completed writing his first book: A Champion Vision: Awaken a Champion in Your Life, Relationships and Business.
Dan teaches the skills and techniques of creating income by following our own passions. Just in this past couple years, several of Dan’s students have begun making over $100,000 a week—yes, I said a week—within six months of beginning their studies with him.
Part of the foundation Dan used to get to where he is now was by asking 3 powerful questions of himself each day. He says that he doesn’t even recall where he learned these three questions. He knows he didn’t invent them. What he does share is that answering these three questions became something incredibly powerful for him in only a handful of months. First of all, he started answering these three questions, which was a very challenging thing to do. He used this process for two weeks prior to working with a new mentor. When he got there, he was doing the same presentations, or so he thought, but all of a sudden, he started attracting different things into his life.
Dan says he became a passion magnet because he answered these three questions on a daily basis. He challenges people to do this for as little as two weeks and then watch what happens to you as a person and how opportunities start popping up, things mentally, physically, socially, spiritually and financially.
When he applied this principle, he admitted — for the most part he had attracted the wrong kind of person in his life as a mate. What ended up happening is by starting this process, he actually attracted the angel into his life, who today is his wife.
Roughly in about 90 days of going to work with his new mentor and starting to apply these principles to his business, he earned more in three months than he had the previous year.
It’s just amazing what these three questions can do.
I’m about to try this for myself and I’m committed to doing it for 30 days – simply because I know of scientifically based research that proves that NEW habits and empowering processes can change our mindset FOREVER in as little as one month.
After answering these three questions just once today, I know that one of them has changed my entire outlook already. Now that’s simply empowering. I wonder if you’ll have the same magnificent results too. Please let us know by leaving a comment in the box below.
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Predictions For A Better World In 2010
Of course we can never really predict the future, we can only create it with our dreams, visions, desires and the power of our minds, our words and our actions. Just imagine the effect on the world if we ALL held one vision, like the breaking down of the Berlin Wall in 1989. I know someone who traveled from Australia and was right there with a group of other people meditating and visualizing the walls were already fallen down. How magnificent they must have felt to witness their vision come into reality.
In the bible God says, “where two or more are gathered in my name, there am I in the midst of them”. To me that means that when two or more people hold the same vision, they have the same powers of creation as the universe OR God.
Just imagine what would happen if we ALL held the vision for a better world in 2010. What could we create together?
What would YOU like to see happen?
What would YOU like to create?
What would YOU like to change?
What would YOU like to be, do or have in 2010?
What Causes Depression?
Is Depression Something That Happens Or An Unhealthy Habit?
Most people think that depression and other problems are something that happens TO them. They have a belief that they are powerless and blame their life circumstances, other people and in fact anything they can think of in order to BE RIGHT about their powerless state.
Most people keep their problems because it meets their needs and they are often rewarded, protected or comforted for having them in some way.
According to Human Needs Psychology, our 6 basic human needs are:
Watch this Tony Robbins video to see exactly how WE CREATE DEPRESSION AND OTHER PROBLEMS. This is a phenomenal visual learning tool that will change your mind about how powerfully we create our own feelings by using our body, our thoughts and our words.
Tony uses STRATEGIC INTERVENTION with a girl suffering from depression. These methods are swiftly executed, produce sustainable results, empower people to understand how they “Do What They Do”, encourages independence and pro-activity (rather than dependence on a therapist or doctor) and sometimes deliberately uses shocking language to break the persons unhealthy pattern. You can choose to be offended by this or not, but to change ANY bad habit, addiction or long standing problem effectively, we must use radically different thoughts, words and actions than what got them into the mess in the first place.
Insightful explanations throughout the video are from Cloé Madanes who is recognized as one of the top 20 psychologists in the world. Cloé is also an author of 7 books, teacher and foremost authority on Strategic Family Therapy.
Feeling Bad About Something You’ve Said
Have you ever felt bad, guilty or ashamed of something you’ve said or done?
I sure have – I’ve just been through what I would consider to be a fairly dramatic and adventurous week. In the process of writing down the story of what happened and examining things I’d said and done from all aspects, I started to feel bad about a coupe of “stupid statements” I had made to someone.
Feeling bad or guilty about something tends to immobilize us and prevent us from moving forward with our lives. The bad feelings can also get “stacked” on top of each other until we feel even worse if they don’t “get cleared” as soon as possible.
After sitting in my room trying to figure out how I could change my thoughts about the “stupid statements” I’d made and feeling progressively distressed and annoyed with myself, I remembered something really important … the best way to clear any emotional distress is to TELL THE TRUTH ABOUT IT. First to yourself and then to the other people involved or someone else.
I made a phone call and apologized. I cried with deep regret and a sense of shame. That process served to clear those bad feelings and helped me to decide what I would do again if faced with the same situation. I’ve been making lots of mistakes at the moment yet I know the learnings are more valuable than could ever be measured.
What Methods Do You Use To Clear Bad Feelings?
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