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Understanding Anger, Rage and Violence

Using Strategic Intervention (physiology, focus and language) I grew up in a family where ANGER and VIOLENCE were often the most dominant ways of showing we cared about each other – yes, they WERE the ways we showed that we cared about each other. Does that sound strange to you? Most people assume that anger [...]

WHEN A WOMAN IS ANGRY

A man would be wise to do something he may never have done before with the powerful energy of an angry woman — TO INVITE HER TO EXPRESS IT DIRECTLY TO HIM — for him to listen, to give HER (not the words) his full attention, feel what SHE is feeling and NOT take it [...]