I TAKE IT AS A COMPLIMENT … when people get irate, upset, angry or downright livid about something I’ve said or done. That means they have a “strong passion”, a burning desire and it also means, they care!
And I know they’ll get over it so much sooner if –
- I don’t rationalize, justify or defend my position,
- I don’t try and sort it all out right now,
- I don’t add fuel to an already well stoked fire,
- I let IT go and let them BE for a while.
What other people think of me is none of my business!
I ONCE THOUGHT THAT “I” SHOULD SOLVE THE PROBLEMS THAT OTHER PEOPLE HAD WITH ME
… now I have faith, they’ll sort it out on their own.
What To Do When Someone Is Upset With Me